do you think theres a problem with this woman or how do i deal with her anger?
My sister in law has had a anger problem making it clear she is to be feared. showing her anger in public. she talks about me alot when i ignore her. i have repeated ignored all gossip against me and my family but she persists. i see her in public and she walks away never to be seen in a store again. my mother in law tells us of her comments. i never really spent more than a hour with her in the same room. i'm 27 and shes 23. why is she like this? i had enough one day and yelled at her. told her i was sick of it. we ended up fighting. i felt good liberated but yet she still continues to fight.she claimed to want to ruin my marriage. introduced my husband to women, made her call my house while she laughed in the background. shed call my house telling me to leave my husband alone. i had to change my number alot. i calle dthe cops but they said i need more proof. when i hit her she called the cops on me.how can i ignore her what can i do and is this totally weird?
Well your question is very much family related and the best advice that i can give you is that talk this matter with your husband and take him in confidence and every thing will be fine...hope your problem settles fine...
take a deep breath and count to 10 then exhale
Answers:
How do you deal with her anger? You can't it belongs to her. However you can deal with your reactions to it. Tell her honestly that she is a drag to be around because of x and you do not want her in your life until she goes for counseling to control her outbursts. It could be that she is jealous of you. Most likely if she has to be like that she is not very secure with herself. Change your number and tell others not to give it to her.
