How can i make sis-in-laws live friendly?
i don't think you can 'make' them do anything. you might make it worse. let them fix it themselves. you may be surprised.
girls will be girls
it will never happen
i have tried to get along with my husbands sister because she is family, dont try to fool yourself
she started not to like me when we were 16 and we worked at mcdonalds and i was her supervisor and she did not want to listen, i have been married to my husbnad 7 years and will not even go to her house, lots of other reasons, just do me a favor
i know she is your sister but is there a reason why they dont get along maybe you could respect that, my husband does not stand up to his sister but she snaps her fingers and he answers, you dont have to quit talking but respect your wifes decision
tell them to let every thing out once for all, then make peace
Answers:
You should have given more details as to what the problems are. Taking that you are a male and all of you living as one family see to it that each one has their own space and more than enough of it. Duties should be well defined within the family and should have equal rights which should be respected by each member of the family.Children to be treated equally.The other members of the family should not be partial to one of them , one should never be given more preference over the others.
If they are not living under a single roof , the issues and occasions that bring about friction should at best never come up. If things are really very very bad see to it that they meet only occassionally and rarely. It is best not to meet at all than keeping a nasty relationship
Flirt with her....
