I have been accused of stealing?
The wider picture I am self employed and my contract employer has accused me of stealing goods (not steeling sorry). from his store. He have absolutely no proof and no I did not steal anything from one of your comments thanks.
I am upset that he has accuse me of theft.
what can I do apart from just an apology from him, which is not acceptable. I quality angry and want to make him pay for his accusations
stop acting approaching a baby..
get ur act together and see wats apposite for ur business..
ignore his accusations and move on..
Unless you be slander in public, it's just an accusation. All you're going to take is an apology. ask him why he is accusing you and ask to see his proof, maybe you can go from there...
The certainty is, all people make mistakes purely like his and it amounts to misunderstanding. If he is a complete and utter a$$ hole, it's likely that someday his behavior will catch up beside him -- or maybe it already has if you plan on pursuing this.
If you're not content knowing that, then probably write a bad review of him somewhere or report his behavior to the state employment commission.
You could sue him for slander in small claims court or if you are really beside yourself about the incident, you could clutch revenge on his property or his family.
If he's not a complete jerk perhaps contribute him a break.
If I was in your shoes I'd want to move on as soon as possible.
Well, this theory has not other worked but if I'm faultsly accused of things and can't convince them I didn't do it, then that is when I turn around and do it . Then at hand you go,, You need to chill out.
That's awful being accuse of stealing, but you just need to explain the situation, accept an apology, and verbs. There is absolutely no reason why you should be "making him pay" for anything.
Get over it and don't take yourself so seriously, though.
It isn't unlawful to accuse someone of something, if you believe they did it. The only thing you're entitled to is an apology, and you said that's not ample, so you should probably consider finding another contract employer to work for. heres what u do u go and say u r sory for stealling and u will not do it again even though u did not steal and then a moment ago stay away from that store for about 2 weeks.
.Have an attorney write a dispatch and mention Defamation of Character several times and monetary recompense...that should shut him up. If he has gone public with that charge, and it has affected your income as a result, you could have a suitcase for a law suit.
If that is actually true, you afterwards have to ask yourself if you're willing to go through complete Hell surrounded by order to (eventually) win.
Lawsuits are NOT fun.
But consulting an attorney might be a wise thing to do -- if you in truth have anything to prove. A letter from the attorney might be enough to win the guy to shut up and stop any more damage.
Jesus taught forgiveness. The reason that he did be not so you could be everybody's punching bag. The reason he did is because very habitually letting it go is a lot easier on your heart and soul than pursuing vengeance. You may gain the guy back, but it also may end up costing your peace of mind (and your pocketbook) a whole bundle.
BTW, I'm not preaching to you. Just pointing out another pick. Trust me, forgiving some people is next to impossible. But do you still want this anger smoldering in your heart years from very soon?
Seriously think about it, and good luck to you.
