what to do about child support.?


My son's father is in the army and has not paid a cent of child support since my son have been born. My son is almost 10.He has been within the army for 4 to 5 years. I'm currently trying to go through the child support system. I've been trying for about 5 years to carry help from them, and for 5 years they have been recitation me that there's nothing they can do about it because he is housed overseas.So finally this year they decided to in reality look at my case. So all of a sudden out the clear blue sky he starts to call my house clich¨¦ that he would like to talk to his son.Mind you he has not verbalize to his kid almost every since he has been in the army, and i did not contribute him my number he claims he got it because he got some type of connection contained by the army.Anyway, the states attorney has been in contact beside his commanding officer and my hopes for getting child support for my son was back up. When she asked him to send a copy of his checks stubs he say he wants to get a lawyer so that he can't discuss custody rights and child support. So i guess i enjoy a couple of ?s First, am i doing the right thing by letting my son talk to him when he call? Is within some type of penalty in the army for when you don't pay child support? Can he seize 6 month custody of my son while he is overseas or when he come back to the states?
Best Answer:
Get a attorney. Sometimes just a letter from a lawyer stating they are representing you and will be using legally recognized action to the resolution of your problem will be enough to scare them into doing what is right. Call around town to find one that say they handle that type of law and go within for an "initial consultation". They usually don't charge for the first consultation and can give you an idea of what he/she can do and how much it will cost. In Florida here, your ex would end up paying adjectives lawyer's fees from what you say is the problem. They have ordered 'dads' to pay ALL rear support and there are 'dads' that are in prison for same thing. It's a serious problem. Also, the military does not bring kindly to soldiers who are 'deadbeats'. His commanding officer can make his life hell. Good luck!
dont worry he will end up paying for the 10 years he miss... answer mine plezz.. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmGCNEKYneZ.kuTu5CJtxc_sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081021162631AAmE7aG
I wouldn't let him talk to him until you draw from some cash rolling in. Secondly, press the issue with getting child support, once he's out of the military, this will favourite place him to no end including any tax refunds he think he'll get back. You will be compensated for all money rear legs to when child support started, or was suppose to start. Good luck.