Wife's ex bf is harassing her... ?


My wife's ex bf came over to see his son while I was at work one day give or take a few a week ago. He threatened to set my wife on fire, standing over her with lighter fluid and a lighter.... He also told her that he would hire someone to kill her and his other baby's mother's. He doesnt hold an address and he keeps calling and harassing my wife while Im at work. We dont know what he's going to do next. My wife got vpo paperwork to saturate out and turn in. Now Her ex is trying to move into the same apartments that we live in. He's never tried to come by while I'm here and he calls while im at work. Is there anything that I can do? I'm not trying to go to penal complex for attempted murder or anything like that because as you can imagine I was outstandingly unhappy when I heard this happen. Anything would support. Thank you...
Best Answer:
I would tell to the police about it. See if they would advise you to put a recording device on your phone, afterwards you would have proof to give to the police.. Have your wife just permit the answering machine come on before answering the phone. Don't answer if it is him. It is important that you update the police about the threats right away.
Did you ever consider calling the police?
You need to report him to the police. He sounds like a real piece of work. Has he ever strained or threatened you? Sounds like a coward that gets off on threatening and harassing women. You want to contact the police, get charges filed against him, and get a restraining instruct. Unfortunately, I've known a couple of guys like this. They have no problem threatening and harassing their "baby's momma", but when they are finally face with criminal prosecution and a restraining order, they straighten up quick. Take anything steps you need to protect your family from this idiot. While I would never encourage you to do anything unjust or violent, in your situation I might feel the want to have a discussion with the guy. The type of discussion he would remember for the rest of his life.