Can anyone help? I want adivce or anything but no stupid comments please!?


OK so heres the deal. My husband right now is in the Hardin Co Jail contained by KY. Part of this is his fault and part is not. I know he has done some wrong but he is still an over adjectives good guy and hes trying. Well he got picked up this past Saturday dark by the cops at his parents house (someone told the cops where he could be found). Well they said they were picking him up because of a court date he missed from a traffic ticket thing which have now been taken care of and adjectives he owes is a fine. Well when they booked him they found that he had 2 more warrents out for his arrest. One was for something down in Laurel Co which hasnt be resolved and the other is for missing a court date back on Feb 19th of this year for falling behind in child support. The conciliator has set a 2700 cash bond for that and there is also a 500 bond for down within Laurel CO. The court date they have said he had missed in Feb we have called and let them know that we would not be able to get it. I had just had a c slot less than 2 weeks ago and there was also snow on the ground and we live 2 hours away. He have told his then public defender and a couple of other people that he couldnt construct it. Well all of them say he never told them anything and I know for fact that he did. They are also axiom that they had now way of contacting Mark which they did they have our address my parents address and Marks cell phone number. Well I know he is behind in Child support by like partially a year but he hasnt been able to hold much of a job and anything I build goes to taking care of our 2 girls. They took all but close to 200 of our taxes we got back for this year to catch us up. I know once he is finished beside the stuff in Hardin Co he has to be taken down to Laurel co more likey to clear that stuff up but that should just be a fine too. We are EXTREMELY LOW on money so do you meditate if the public defender or even me talked to the judge we could work something out to the extent that he would be realised into my custody and I would create sure they know where he is at and make sure he has a career and also make sure he gets to court on his next court date. In my opininon since he have a few places waiting for him to call them back that he applyed to he is doing no good surrounded by jail when he could be out working to make money to pay child support and such. Any suggestion or anything would be great if you need more details or something just let me know. HOPEFULLY adjectives this makes since. THANKS SOO MUCH TO WHO EVER TAKES THE TIME TO READ THIS!! We greatly appreciate it!!! to clear everyone up on something i forgot to add in within... one his public defender at that time had said that since we live 2 hours away that we can just ring up her up and let her know that he is still working which at the time of the court date he was and that she would take thinking of it and so we did... Also im sorry to say but my husband wasnt going to risk his life to drive in unpromising weather much less try to even get out of our drive way to grasp to court 2 hours away.
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You can of course give it a shot. Your custody? Not going to occur with all of this. You were at hand and saw all of this and he still screwed up. They might release him to a parent but even that is doubtful. If he or you have relatives about who are willing to testify he MIGHT have a destiny. The judge will want to see the big picture. The judge has nil reason to trust him as he has screwed up all of the style around. Even if he did as you say attempt to work this out he will get screwed at every step as they will doubt his veracity. The no job point will kill him. It is a damned if you do or damned if you don't. You two will get through this eventually and move on. In the meantime you should form a plan so you are geared up if everything goes south.
For an adjectives around nice guy, he sure has a lot of court dates. But anyway, they will see him as unreliable and a illustrious risk. The judge won't, put the responsibility of him showing up on you. He has shown that he cannot be trusted. They may go easier on him if he's the biggest source of income for the family, but you said he doesn't really have a job. Usually I would say-so get a new husband, that's pretty much the only well-mannered advice here.
Sorry, but I think the answer is no. Because he had three warrants out for three separate times when he did not abide by a court order, he will not be trusted again. In this situation, money talks. You need to bring to the fore money to bond him out. If you are the one putting up the money, then the court will believe that you are truly interested in keeping your husband out of jail. As it stands presently, the court will not believe you. When it was time to go to court, you thought it was okay for your husband not to dance because of your recent surgery and "snow on the ground". Those are not good reasons for your husband to miss court. It doesn't even really matter whether he told anyone or not. Those are not valid excuses for missing a court ordered date. You and your husband entail to understand this if he is ever going to be released and get on his feet. When the court say be there, be there.
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Katie, I can't offer you much relieve I am afraid. I think your husband continues to shoot himself in the foot. He needs to draw from over his self distructive habits before he can be much help to you and your girls.