Is there any way I can get my ever lying mother in law to shut up and get on with her own life ??SOS?

My best advice ( because my mother in law is a demon from hell) she already knows you don't like her, and she does'nt like her, tell her to keep out of your marriage, and if she has opions to keep them to herself or tell someone else. I don't talk to mine anymore, she has a protection order.lol
Number one, you can stop talking to her. Avoid all contact with her, refuse to talk to her on the phone or in person.
Number two, you can move out of state.
Number three, tell your husband you want him to tell his mother to butt out of his relationship with you.

It's going to take talking alot with your husband to solve this one. Most people just stop talking to them and never have contact again.


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I could write a book on this subject. Mine started out as my best friend and now 13 years later we have talked for over 2 1/2 years. My biggest advice is to get your spouse involved. Until my husband knew what was going on I was blamed for everything and my m-i-l was trying to break up our marriage. My husband eventually told them off and here we are, even after counseling with them. Tell her now now the longer you wait the hard it gets and the more she thinks she needs to be there. I wasn't able to tell her face to face so it started with a very polite letter really helped things for a while. GOOD LUCK!!
Ya, easy, next time she calls you...tell her to shut up and get on with her own life...and hang up the phone. Don't let her ruin your family life.
In my opinion, be as patient and humble as you can. These kind of issues are really delicate and complexed. Now see, mother is a very important thing for anyone so your hubby is never going to like if you speak against his mother. So the best way is to play as nice as you can and let the time divulge this secret. Whilst what you can do is play a role of a sweet daughter-in-law infront of your hubby and you can be indifferent when alone with her. Just try to prove it to your husband by your actions that you care a lot for his mother and stuff so that if his mother back bites about you; then your husband will slowly and steadily realise the game of your mother-in-law. Hope you get the drift. In short, play wise.