im 17 and my mother willing let me move in with my fiance,now 3 months later puled me from there,is that legal
i had been living with my fiance for three months, when my mom misunderstood soemthing i told her and said that he was emotionaly abusing me(which he wasn't) and controling my life, so she called me and told me to pack my things becasue iw as no longer living there. i want to know if she willing let me move if she can legal take me away from him.
Yes she can. You can't do much without her consent at your age (I think she can unmake the engagement too). She can't physically abuse you out of it but I think you should listen to her for now and talk things over to settle the misunderstanding.
Your mom's the boss till you're 18, and anyway, she's probably right
Legally, yes she can ... but that is entirely beside the point. Let me ask you a question - Would you dive into a swimming pool that had barely begun to fill? Then why would you decide to make a lifelong commitment when you have barely begun to live?
You can play house with him if you must ... but don't enter into ANY (pregnancy included) lifelong commitments before you have a chance to discover what life has to offer you. Take your mother's advice on this one, honey. She knows a bad apple when she sees one. More likely than not, her decision is based on an accumulation of little red flags, not just one miscommunication.
Let me wake you up to something. Our society raises girls to become victims. Us men know that your early childhood playtime activities, (girls always wear pink, they are always the MOMMY when they play house, and mommy does as daddy says, etc.) are preparing you for a role of subservience and motherhood. We also know that you go through a stage of rebellion in your quest for personal identity and independence ... and we take advantage of that.
We pet you and stroke your ego in just the right way, we tell you you're beautiful and we will love you forever, we get you pregnant, and five years down the line we get bored and leave you and the kid behind because you finally got wise to our game. The only thing standing between you and us is your MOM.
You can say that ALL men aren't like that - but yes we are ... at least until we reach that point of maturity where we have acquired enough decency and respect to treat a woman right. So here's a good tip for ya - Don't pick your man on his ability to fulfill his responsibilities, pick him on his ability to handle his irresponsibilities.
Your ma knows what she's doing and it IS the right thing at this point ... but please think about what I said.
If your mother had you emancipated in a court of law then she wouldn't have any rights. If you haven't been emancipated and your mother allowed you to stay there and then changed her mind, she has every right legally.
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Trust your mother on this one - she's only got your best interests at heart. If you love this guy then the fact that your back home with Mum won't get in the way of your relationship.
From a legal point of view your Mum's in the right.
